
Company holiday parties are just around the corner. You might be looking forward to them –for some people, it’s a time to celebrate the year’s achievements, unwind with colleagues, and enjoy some festive merriment. Or you might already be rolling your eyes – it’s bad enough having to work with these people, now you have to socialize with them?! For some employees, company gatherings end up becoming legal nightmares, destroying careers, reputations, and happiness. Here are some tips for safeguarding your rights during the festivities.
Management Is Watching
Surveillance doesn’t stop just because Bing Crosby is singing in the background. Supervisors, HR reps, and cronies are still paying attention, so use your judgment. Anything that is said during the event can (and will) be used as information for later HR investigations. So if you wouldn’t say it during work hours, don’t say it during the party.
Don’t Expect Your Boss To Follow The Rules – But You Still Have To
Word to the wise: supervisors and supervisees are not always held to the same standards. So just because you see the boss getting out of hand doesn’t mean it’s a good idea for you to follow suit. It’s not unheard of for two people to be treated differently for exactly the same conduct – and not all discrimination is legally actionable. Save that raunchy joke for a non-work party, even if the boss just distributed a photocopy of something no one wanted to see. Remember that what might seem harmless to you could be uncomfortable or even taken as inappropriate by someone else.
You have to follow your company’s policies, even if you’re doing it in a reindeer costume. It’s not a bad idea to take a moment to familiarize yourself with codes of conduct, alcohol policies, and harassment guidelines. Give the employee handbook a quick read before the party. It might not put you in a festive mood, but it might save your job.
Monitor Your Alcohol Intake
Please don’t get liquored up and do something dumb. No lawyer can save you if you get violent, sexually harass someone, or barf on the boss’s wife. It may be tempting to indulge, but if you want to keep your job, consider skipping the cocktails. Skip the recreational drugs too, even if they’re legal.
Document Any Unwanted Behaviors
If you experience behavior that feels inappropriate or makes you uncomfortable, trust your instincts. Document what happened, including the date, time, location, and individuals involved. Take that documented record to a workers’ rights attorney the next day. Don’t wait – if there is something legally actionable about the situation, that statute of limitations is unbelievably short.
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The holidays are already complicated, and company parties can just make them weirder. If you end up at a holiday party at your workplace, keep your wits about you and your professionalism intact. You’ll thank yourself next Monday.









