
Let’s face it, the workplace is not a warm and fuzzy place. If it was, they wouldn’t have to pay us to work there, right? So it’s important for workers to understand the difference between normal work annoyances and legally actionable workplace harassment. Here are some things to look out for.
Anger and Aggression:
People get frustrated at work and they get snappy with each other. But swearing, shouting, or physical violence are unprofessional and may signal something more than just people feeling irked about an email.
When to talk to a lawyer: The conduct is only targeted to people of a particular race, gender, sexual orientation, religion, or ability; includes racial slurs or demeaning comments about gender or other protected classes; there are threats; or there is physical violence.
Public Humiliation:
Getting called out in front of other workers or customers is a nasty, unprofessional tactic that bad managers use. Being subjected to criticism in front of your colleagues or the public is a demoralizing experience.
When to talk to a lawyer: It only happens to people in one category; it includes racial slurs or demeaning comments about gender or other protected characteristics; it causes serious reputational harm.
Favoritism:
Workplaces are very clique-y. When the boss is the leader of the clique, it’s doubly uncomfortable for the other workers. Being on the wrong end of a workplace clique can involve getting left out of meetings or left off of emails, not getting invited to group activities; conversations going silent when someone enters the room; whispering behind someone’s back; and mocking or group bullying that goes unchecked by the supervisor.
When to talk to a lawyer: If the clique excludes or targets people in a particular category.
Sabotage:
Co-workers may try to undermine each other in highly competitive workplaces. This can take the form of “forgetting” to add someone to an important email, or hiding equipment or supplies, or taking credit for or destroying someone else’s work.
When to talk to a lawyer: If there is evidence the sabotage is based on race, color, creed, national origin, sex, or another protected characteristic; if people in a particular category routinely find their work being undermined.
Creepiness:
Invasive questions about clothes, workouts, relationships, family. Being told to smile more. Being told you’re too emotional, or asking if you need a moment to get control of yourself. Nicknames like “honey” or “sugar” or “sweetie.” Creepy touching. Creepy jokes.
When to talk to a lawyer: NOW. Don’t put up with that stuff. Document it and take it to an attorney.
Not every hostile work environment is legally actionable. But the legally actionable ones are more common than you think. Talking to a reputable workplace lawyer in your jurisdiction can help you figure out whether the legal system has a solution to your hostile work environment, and if so, what to do next.










